It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. Am I sure I can handle the lifestyle.
You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. I know that time spent together even when we're both just sleeping is valuable. My fiance is a surgeon. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. So I am at my dating prime. You I think are ok with that. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else.
She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. My advice would be to date him when he has free time. Look for girls in your singles ward. We attempted to date back when I was in undergrad and he was in med school, and it went nowhere -- mostly because I was young, immature, self-centered and your typical spazzy college kid at that point. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run.
She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. If I'm serving tables at a restaurant, I'm going to tell my boss that she's got to cover for me because there's an emergency and I'm leaving. Heck his sleeps best with me on his chest.